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End of last year I turned 59. And during the last couple of years my learning journey even accelerated and looking back where I was 10 years ago it seems to be a different life!
I was in a different country than today.
I had a completely different business (which I was tired of already at...
... for being or becoming a great leader. Or simply having the life you really want.
Really? We need a whole network and many relationships to be successful, don't we?
And still, success and leadership starts somewhere else.
THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF....
When we talk about relationships, most people take a look at their outside world.
The relationships with our loved ones.
The relationships with colleagues.
The relationship with friends....you name it.
And so they put their effort into developing, building or restoring these relationships.
Everybody wants to be heard.
But not so many people are willing or able to really listen attentively and deeply.
Despite the fact that many of us believe we DO listen. I thought that for a long time until I realized that my perception was very wrong (it helps to ask others for their perception...
In the past, when people shouted at me, shut down, or were getting very defensive, I got really furious. Or frustrated. And took it personally. Almost always.
And believed that there was absolutely no reason for their behaviour.
What I simply couldn't see back then was THAT EVERY PERSON HAS...
Superficial small talk does not build relationships. That is valid for the business world too.
You might believe deeper relationships are unnecessary in business - after all colleagues might not be your friends.
They might not be - that's not the point here.
Deeper relationships WILL create...
In a relationship - be it in business or privately, we often take the eyes off this "we're building a future together that we're both enjoy" - even if it sucks today.
While we're busy being angry, frustrated, or annoyed at someone, particularly in business - despite striving...
It looks like we won't get rid of the Corona situation and the consequences any time soon. Part of it is that many people still work remotely, some work in the office while keeping distance, some do both.
That creates its own challenges. And even more so when you're a leader in another...
Insight no 1:
Whatever someone does “to” me, has nothing to do with me and all to do with the other person.
“He never said thank you – he’s ignoring me….I’m not really important”. We’ve all been there. Someone treats us horrible,...
Have you ever faced the situation where a crisis hit you out of the blue? Silly question, right? As I literally don’t know anybody who did not, at some point in their lives.
This could be the loss of a job, your partner telling you that they want to leave, a diagnosis from your...
I’m living with my partner. And raised two children. I worked in a number of corporates and have started two businesses. So, I had my fair share (and still going on) of conversations. And quite a lot of them were also difficult.
A gigantic playing field for learning how to have successful...
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