Relationship Idea #2: You're co-creating success and the future together
Jun 24, 2021
In a relationship - be it in business or privately, we often take the eyes off this "we're building a future together that we're both enjoy" - even if it sucks today.
While we're busy being angry, frustrated, or annoyed at someone, particularly in business - despite striving for collaboration and progress - it's actually easy to forget (or not even define) what success means for all participants and the organisation.
Or we start blaming someone for the unwanted situation!
The antidote:
1. Stop judging the other person-
THE FASTER WE JUDGE THE OTHER PERSON, THE QUICKER THE RELATIONSHIP GOES INTO DESPAIR.
I know, I know, easier said than done. If we pay attention to our own desire or habit to judge we can stop it. And become curious. Might not work all the time - but it's a great start to be aware and give it a go. With practice, it will work more regularly - promised.
2. Remember that the energy in a relationship is ALWAYS co-created. So be aware of what kind of energy you bring into the relationship as you're part of it. CHANGE THE ENERGY AND THINGS WILL SHIFT (into the right direction that is ;-))
I promise it works.
#cocreation #clarity #personalleadership #leadership
